Ok, I feel like a real ding-dong. A couple months ago, I switched my blog to only have comments show up after they had been approved by me. For some reason, I thought these would be sent to my e-mail and I would just approve from there. But, I guess I was wrong. I just noticed the 80 comments awaiting approval on my dashboard.
All this time, I thought I had not gotten 1 comment from my numerous (maybe 5) posts :) I feel much better now. But, if you had written a comment and were wondering why it wasn't showing, there is the answer. I'm just a little slow.